Manage dependents for disability, pension, or DIC benefits
Learn how to add a dependent spouse, child, or parent to your disability, pension, or Dependency and Indemnity Compensation (DIC) benefits. And if you’ve had a life change, find out how to update your dependent information.
Who we consider to be a “dependent” for VA benefit purposes
We consider these family members to be dependents:
- A spouse (we recognize same-sex and common-law marriages)
- A parent, if you’re directly caring for them and their income and net worth are below a certain amount
- An unmarried child (including an adopted child or stepchild) who meets 1 of the eligibility requirements in the next list
For an unmarried child to be a dependent, 1 of these must be true:
- They’re under 18 years old, or
- They’re between the ages of 18 and 23 years old and enrolled in school either full time or part time, or
- They became permanently disabled before they turned 18
What qualifies you for higher benefit payments if you have dependents
Check the requirements here for the benefit you’re receiving to find out if you may qualify for higher benefit payments.
For disability compensation
You may qualify for higher disability compensation payments if both of these are true for you:
- You’re eligible for VA disability compensation, and
- You have a combined disability rating of at least 30%
For pension benefits
You may qualify for higher pension payments if 1 of these is true for you:
- If you have a dependent child, their income and assets are within the limits to be eligible for pension benefits, or
- If you’re married, you and your dependent spouse’s combined income and assets are within the limits to be eligible for pension benefits
Note: You must report your spouse’s income and assets when you apply for pension benefits.
For DIC benefits
You may qualify for higher DIC payments if both of these are true for you:
- You’re the surviving spouse of a Veteran, and
- You have 1 or more unmarried children (biological or adopted) under the age of 18, or under the age of 23 if attending school
Note: Surviving children and parents of Veterans may also be eligible for their own separate DIC payments.
How to review your current dependents
You can use our online tool to review the current dependents you’ve added to your VA benefits. To do this, you need to be signed in to VA.gov with a verified account.
Life changes you should tell us about
You may need to update a dependent’s status to continue to receive higher VA benefit payments. Or, you may need to remove a dependent from your benefits to avoid overpayment debt.
If you get divorced
We don’t consider a former spouse—and any former stepchildren—to be dependents, unless you still provide more than half of a former stepchild’s financial support. After you get divorced, you’re not eligible for higher VA benefit payments anymore. Notify us right away by submitting a dependency claim (go to the next section on this page, How to add, remove, or update a dependent). You don’t need to send or upload supporting documents to show you’re divorced.
If you don’t notify us and we continue paying you higher VA benefit payments, you’ll have overpayment debt. We may withhold money from future payments until you’ve paid us back.
If your dependent child is attending school when they turn 18
We track your child’s age based on their date of birth that you gave us when you submitted your claim. When your child turns 18, we’ll stop paying you higher VA benefit payments for a dependent child unless you tell us they’re attending school. Notify us right away (go to the next section on this page, How to add, remove, or update a dependent).
If you notify us before your child turns 18 years old, you’ll continue to receive your higher benefit payment.
If we stopped paying you higher VA benefit payments, those higher payments will start again after you notify us that your child is attending school. You’ll also receive any back pay we owe you.
If your dependent child is 18-23 years old and stops attending school
If your dependent child is 18-23 years old and stops attending school, we no longer consider them to be a dependent. When your child isn’t a dependent any longer, you’re not eligible for higher VA benefit payments. Notify us right away (go to the next section on this page, How to add, remove, or update a dependent).
If you don’t notify us and we continue paying you higher VA benefit payments, you’ll have overpayment debt. We may withhold money from future payments until you’ve paid us back.
If your dependent child is 18-23 years old, attending school, and their graduation date changes
We use the school enrollment information you gave us when you submitted your claim, including the graduation date. When your child graduates, we’ll stop paying you higher VA benefit payments for a dependent child. If the graduation date changes, notify us right away (go to the next section on this page, How to add, remove, or update a dependent).
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If you don’t notify us that your child will graduate earlier than expected and we continue paying you higher VA benefit payments, you’ll have overpayment debt. We may withhold money from future payments until you’ve paid us back.
If your child will graduate later than expected, you’ll need to notify us to continue receiving payments.
If your dependent child has a permanent disability and turns 18 years old
We track your child’s age based on their date of birth that you gave us when you submitted your claim. When your child turns 18, we’ll stop paying you higher VA benefit payments for a dependent child unless you notify us that they became permanently disabled before they turned 18. Notify us right away (go to the next section on this page, How to add, remove, or update a dependent).
You’ll also need to submit copies of these documents:
- Medical records showing your child’s permanent physical or mental disability existed before they turned 18 years old, and
- A statement from your child’s doctor describing the type and severity of the disability
If your dependent child gets married
If your dependent child gets married, we no longer consider them to be a dependent. When your child isn’t a dependent any longer, you’re not eligible for higher VA benefit payments. Notify us right away (go to the next section on this page, How to add, remove, or update a dependent).
If you don’t notify us and we continue paying you higher VA benefit payments, you’ll have overpayment debt. We may withhold money from future payments until you’ve paid us back.
If your dependent dies
If your dependent dies, you’re no longer eligible for higher VA benefit payments. Notify us right away (go to the next section on this page, How to add, remove, or update a dependent).
If you don’t notify us and we continue paying you higher VA benefit payments, you’ll have overpayment debt. We may withhold money from future payments until you’ve paid us back.
How to add, remove, or update a dependent
You’ll need to file a dependency claim. Certain life changes require you to submit additional evidence with your claim. Keep reading to find out what evidence you may need to submit.
Submit this form in 1 of these 2 ways:
Option 1: File a dependency claim online
You can add, remove, or update dependents online right now.
Option 2: Mail us a dependency claim
Fill out an Application Request to Add and/or Remove Dependents (VA Form 21-686c).
Get VA Form 21-686c to download
Mail your completed form to this address:
Department of Veterans Affairs
Evidence Intake Center
PO Box 4444
Janesville, WI 53547-4444
Note: To update us about your dependent child who’s between 18 and 23 years old and attending school, mail us this completed form instead: Request for Approval of School Attendance (VA Form 21-674).
Additional evidence you may need to submit when adding a spouse or child
Find out if you need to submit additional evidence with your dependency claim.
If you add a dependent child
If your child is adopted, you’ll need to submit a copy of the final adoption decree, the placement agreement, or the child’s revised birth certificate.
If your child is permanently disabled and incapable of supporting themselves, you’ll need to submit copies of these documents:
- Medical records showing that your child’s permanent physical or mental disability existed before they turned 18 years old, and
- A statement from your child’s doctor that describes the type and severity of your child’s physical or mental disability
If you live outside the U.S., its bases, or territories, you’ll need to submit a copy of the child’s birth certificate.
If you add a spouse
If you were married by common law, you’ll need to submit copies of these documents:
- Copies of the birth certificates of any children born to you and your spouse in the common-law marriage
- 2 Statements of Marital Relationship (VA Form 21-4170)—1 that you complete and 1 that your spouse completes
Get VA Form 21-4170 to download - 2 Supporting Statements Regarding Marriage (VA Form 21P-4171) completed by 2 different people with knowledge about your marriage
Get VA Form 21P-4171 to download
If you were married in a tribal ceremony, you’ll need to submit copies of these documents:
- Signed statements from you and your spouse. The statements must include the name of the tribe, date (month, day, and year) of marriage, place (city and state, county and state, or city and country) where the marriage ceremony happened, and the name and mailing address of the person who performed the ceremony.
- Signed statements from at least 2 people who were present at the tribal marriage ceremony. The statements must include the name of the tribe, date (month, day, and year) of marriage, place (city and state, county and state, or city and country) where the ceremony happened, and the name and mailing address of the person who performed the ceremony.
- A signed statement from the person who performed the ceremony. The statement must include the date (month, day, and year) of marriage, place (city and state, county and state, or city and country) where the marriage ceremony happened, and the person’s authority for performing the ceremony.
If you were married by proxy (someone else represented you or your spouse at the marriage ceremony), you’ll need to submit copies of all documents and certificates issued in connection with your proxy marriage.
If you live outside the U.S., its bases, or territories, you’ll need to submit a copy of your marriage certificate, church marriage record, or other public marriage document.
How to add a dependent parent
First, fill out a Statement of Dependency of Parent(s) (VA Form 21P-509).
Get VA Form 21P-509 to download
Then, mail your completed form to us at this address:
Department of Veterans Affairs
Evidence Intake Center
PO Box 4444
Janesville, WI 53547-4444
How to confirm the status of your dependents for your VA disability benefits
Use VA Form 21-0538 to confirm the status of your dependents (spouse or children) for your VA disability benefits. We use this information to determine whether you’re eligible to continue receiving additional compensation based on the number of dependents you have.
You must confirm the status of your dependents every 8 years. If you don’t submit this form by the deadline, we’ll remove your dependents from your benefits.
We recommend that you confirm the status of your dependents every year. If you don’t confirm the status of your dependents and we continue paying you higher VA benefit payments, you’ll have overpayment debt.
How to submit this form
Other questions you may have about managing dependents for your benefits
Can I get paid back to the date I got married or the date my child was born or adopted?
For higher disability compensation payments, we may pay you back to the date of your marriage or the birth or adoption of your child if you meet all of these requirements.
All of these must be true:
- You had already received a combined disability rating of at least 30% at the time of the marriage, birth, or adoption, and
- You file your claim for additional disability compensation for the dependent within a year of the marriage, birth, or adoption, and
- You respond within a year to our request for any more information or evidence needed to confirm your claim
If it’s been more than 1 year since you got married or had or adopted a child, we may not pay you back to the date of the marriage, birth, or adoption. Instead, we may pay you back only to the date we received your claim for additional disability for the dependent or, in some cases, up to a year before this date.
Can my Veteran spouse and I both get additional VA benefits for each other and for our children?
If both you and your spouse are Veterans with a combined disability rating of at least 30%, you both can get additional VA benefits for each other and for your children.
You should know: It’ll take us longer to process your claim if your spouse is also a Veteran. But if you file your claim online and we decide you’re eligible for additional disability compensation for your dependents, we’ll pay you back to the date you started the online claim process.
When do I add a dependent to my VA disability benefits?
You can add a dependent when you file your original claim or after you file your claim.
If you haven’t yet filed a claim for disability compensation: You can file a claim for additional compensation for a dependent at the same time as you file your original claim for disability compensation. If you receive a combined disability rating of at least 30%, we’ll automatically consider your eligibility for additional compensation for your dependent.
Find out how to file a claim for disability compensation
If you didn’t claim 1 or more dependents when you originally filed for disability compensation: You can file a claim for additional disability compensation for a dependent now if you have a combined disability rating of at least 30%.
If something changes in your family after you received a combined disability rating of at least 30%: You can file a claim for additional disability compensation whenever you add a dependent. You can add a dependent if any of these life changes happen:
- You get married
- You have or adopt a child
- Your child is between 18 and 23 years old and enrolled in school
- We determine that your child, who’s at least 18 years old, became permanently disabled before turning 18
- You become the caregiver for a parent whose income and net worth is below a certain amount
If VA approves my claim, when will I start receiving higher payments for my disability compensation?
We’ll begin paying you within 2 weeks after we approve your claim. We’ll include back pay from the date you became eligible for higher payments.
If you need help filing your claim
You can work with an accredited Veterans Service Organization representative. These professionals are trained and certified in the VA claims and appeals process. An accredited representative can answer your questions or even file your claim for you.